Stop Looking For HOME Everywhere Else—You Are The HOME You've Been Searching For

What if the place you've been trying to get back to is actually you? Not the you that pleases others or performs for acceptance, but the raw, honest, wildly worthy you beneath all the conditioning. This essential question forms the heart of a deeply resonant exploration into authentic selfhood.

Many of us equate power with cutting people off or establishing firm boundaries—valid steps in our healing journey. Yet deeper than that lies a more profound truth: real power isn't about controlling how others treat you but about fearlessly embodying who you truly are. When you stop second-guessing every word and gesture, when you simply allow yourself to be felt rather than performing what you think others want, something remarkable happens. Your presence lands differently. Your energy speaks a language beyond words.

This episode guides you through the difference between intellectual understanding and embodied wisdom, offering a gentle mindfulness practice to reconnect with your essential nature. We explore how tenderness isn't weakness but a different kind of strength—one that holds clarity and doesn't need to shout to be known. For those feeling overwhelmed by the demands of human-made systems and expectations, this episode offers a sacred reminder: you don't owe these constructs your soul. Your body carries the waters, minerals, and breath of the earth to which you truly belong. When the world feels too loud, too rigid, or too demanding, you can always return to breath, to body, to soul—to you. There's no place like that.

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Chapters

• 0:01 Welcome to Lift When Self
• 0:42 No Place Like Home Reflection
• 1:26 Mindful Moment Practice
• 4:27 Tenderness as Strength
• 5:47 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Transcript

NatNat: 0:01

Hey love, welcome back to the Lift when Self podcast. I'm your host, nat Nat, and whether you've been here many times or this is your first time landing in this space, I want to say welcome home. This podcast isn't about fixing yourself. It's not about chasing some ideal version of healing. It's about returning to the truth that's always been underneath it all, to the place inside you that never needed to prove, perform or be perfect to belong. If this resonates, please like, share and leave a review. It helps more people find this space and it lets me know it's landing where it's meant to.

NatNat: 0:42

I pulled a card before sitting down to record and it was called no Place Like Home, and it felt deeply personal. Yet it also felt collective, like a frequency that needed to be voiced right now. And what came through in that moment was this question that I think many of us are holding what if the place you've been trying to get back to is actually you, not the you that pleases, not the you that performs, yet the raw, honest, wildly worthy you? Beneath all the old conditioning, many of us feel empowered when we say I'm cutting people off, I'm choosing better. They won't do that to me anymore, and that's valid, yet deeper than that. Real power is not about telling other people how to treat you. It's about not being afraid to be you fully, softly, without apology, owning your energy so others can feel that language of who you truly are. Last week, I had several moments that invited me to practice this, to come back into being me instead of what I thought people wanted me to be, to stop second guessing my every word or tone, to simply be felt, and what I noticed was how this amplified the space I could hold for clients and in podcast recordings.

NatNat: 2:06

There's a difference between offering kindness to someone and simply being kind. One is effort, the other is essence. It's about embodiment. Many of us stay in the intellectual, yet the invitation is to drop into the wisdom of the body, into lived experience, which is knowing. And whether you speak or stay silent, people feel you. When you arrive, your presence lands. When you leave, your energy lingers. This isn't about image, it's about frequency, it's about sensation, it's about remembering that you are home. So let's take a moment to actually feel that.

NatNat: 2:48

Will you join me in a mindful moment? Now? Get comfortable in your seating and, if it's safe to do so, gently close your eyes, if it's not just soften your focus and bring awareness inward. Take a deep breath in through your nose and slowly exhale through your mouth. Place one hand on your chest, one hand on your belly and just notice where am I right now. Not your to-do list, not your story, not your conditioning, just you. Breathe into the space beneath your hand. Let the breath remind you of life inside you. Let the breath say I am still here in this body, in this moment, in this return. Say inwardly, if it resonates, I am safe to be me, I am safe to soften, my sensitivity is sacred. My tenderness is powerful. Allow yourself to take a few more deep breaths in and letting your exhale be longer than your inhale, and when you're ready, you're going to gently open your eyes and stay with your breath. Let's come back together.

NatNat: 4:30

You don't have to harden to survive. You don't have to pretend to be okay in order to be lovable. You don't have to pretend to be okay in order to be lovable. You don't have to shrink just to keep others comfortable. Your tenderness is not feeble. It holds clarity, it holds wisdom, it holds the kind of strength that doesn't need to shout to be known.

NatNat: 4:57

And when I speak about the world, I'm not talking about the earth, because, yes, your body is of this earth. It carries its waters, minerals, stories and breath. You belong to it. I'm speaking about the human-made world, the systems, the roles, the expectations, the constructs that told you who you should be in order to be lovable, to feel productive, to feel worthy. But you don't owe those systems your soul. You don't have to be devoured by what was never built for your truth. Because, yes, you are in this world, yet you are not of it. And when the world feels too loud, too rigid, too demanding, you can return to breath, to body, to soul, to you. There's no place like that. Until next time, remember to be kind to yourself, stay soft and keep lifting oneself. Remember time is a tool, not a toy. Use it wisely.